hola mirad,uso este codigo:
<OBJECT ID='WMPlay' width=320 height=312 classid='CLSID:6BF52A52-394A-11d3-B153-00C04F79FAA6'
codebase='http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.cab#Version=5,1,52,701'
standby='Loading Microsoft Windows Media Player components...' type='application/x-oleobject'>
<PARAM name='URL' value='videos'>
<PARAM name=DisplaySize value=0>
<PARAM NAME=ShowControls VALUE=1>
<PARAM NAME=ShowDisplay VALUE=0>
<PARAM NAME=ShowStatusBar VALUE=1>
<PARAM NAME=AutoStart VALUE=TRUE>
<PARAM NAME=InvokeURLS Value=False>
<embed width='320' height='312' type='application/x-mplayer2' pluginspage='http://www.microsoft.com/Windows/Downloads/Contents/Products/MediaPlayer/' src='videos' Name='GameSpot Live' ShowControls='1' AutoStart=True ShowDisplay='0' ShowStatusBar='1'>
</embed></object>
y necesitaria desvilitar los controles......pero aunque cambie los parametros de showcontrols me sigue mostrando los controles...
gracias