Sin Framework sería así (quizá te sirva de guía):
  Código PHP:
    <!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Transitional//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-transitional.dtd">
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
<head>
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8" />
<title>Documento sin título</title>
<script type="text/javascript">
function $(x){return document.getElementById(x);}
function addEvent(obj,fun,type){ 
    if(obj.addEventListener){ 
        obj.addEventListener(type,fun,false); 
    }else if(obj.attachEvent){ 
        var f=function(){ 
            fun.call(obj,window.event); 
        } 
        obj.attachEvent('on'+type,f); 
        obj[fun.toString()+type]=f; 
    }else{ 
        obj['on'+type]=fun; 
    } 
}  
onload=function(){
    var li=document.getElementsByTagName('li');
    for(var i=0,l=li.length;i<l;i++){
        addEvent(li[i],function(){
            var p=this,c=0;
            while(p && p.nodeName.toLowerCase()!='ul'){
                if(p.nodeName.toLowerCase()=='li'){
                    c++;    
                }
                p=p.previousSibling;
            }
            alert(c);
        },'click');
    }
}
 
</script>
 
</head>
 
<body>
<ul>
 <li>Item 1</li>
 <li>Item 2</li>
 <li>Item 3</li>
</ul>
 
</body>
</html>